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Home to an incredibly diverse wide range of ethical porn, there are thousands of audio stories and guided masturbation sessions waiting for you. Talking dirty is not all about saying filthy sexy things to your man. In fact, it’s the perfect way to spice things up during sex if you have usually been very filthy and intense. Below you are going to find 91 different dirty things to say to your guy that will make sex a powerfully satisfying experience for both of you. When I get back, I’m going to [insert sexual activity].

During sex

• All you need is a little confidence, a willing partner (or two!), and this dirty talk guide.
• Imagine two guys getting hot and heavy, and one suddenly blurts out, “Can you feel my Kenergy?” in a thick deep bro-ccent.
• Dirty talk is usually thought of as something that occurs during partnered sex, but it can actually occur anytime, anywhere—with or without an audience.
• As you can probably guess this makes it great to use if you want to make sex hotter and more enjoyable than usual.

Or maybe you enjoy being called a “slut” during sex, but the request to call you such pulls your partner out of the moment. Download the Grindr app or browse hands-free with Grindr Web—the same Grindr you know and love, now available on your laptop or PC with no download required. Have a safe word or signal to let your partner know if they say something that makes you uncomfortable. Knowing you can stop at any time—no questions asked—makes trying new things less scary.

Sexual Tension: The Good, the Bad, and the Awkward

Humans are verbal creatures—in relationships, we use our words to express our deepest emotions, desires, needs, and fantasies. It just doesn’t have the same effect—and that’s because hearing certain words or phrases can be a major turn-on. But while porn stars may have no qualms about uttering filthy phrases during sex, many of us regular folk tend to blush at the mere thought of saying such words out loud. Even the phrase “dirty talk” sounds shameful or bad. Many people have never tried talking dirty before, and feel anxious about how to get started.

A change of pace is a necessary part of a relationship, so try this 14-day challenge that you can do with your partner – at home. Dirty talk is all about getting the other person to feel aroused, excited, and wanted and to say, “Yes, I want it more.” Eventually, it will feel natural and get hotter and more intense. If you’re embarrassed to talk to your partner about your preferences, try writing everything down in a note and share it with your partner when you’re not face-to-face present with each other.

• Whether you are confident or not…this highly calm, collective and intelligent expert in dating can make you realise the answers to your relationship troubles.
• Maybe you like to be nasty or filthy on occasion, or maybe you like to be told you’re soft and sweet (hey, you can be both!).
• Feel like you’ve mastered the art of talking dirty?
• Ideally, you want to establish clear consent before the dirty talk or sexting has taken place.

As you penetrate her, grab her and claw her, and say something dirty and sexy about each body part of hers that you touch with your hands. Or just call her a dirty slut and work with that as the minutes pass by. This type of dirty talk is just asking questions that encourage a partner to dirty talk back to you, whether by narrating their experience, offering a compliment, or relaying directions in response. For example, you might ask, ‘Do you like how I feel? ’ or ‘What would you do if I stroked you like this?

In fact, using dirty talk is one of my favorite sexting tips. This chapter, Chapter 3 is going to focus on the different dirty things you can say to your man depending on the situation. The comfort you feel in your relationship has everything to do with what you’re willing to try sexually.

An “mmm,” “oh baby,” or similar moan-inspired sound will encourage your partner to continue what they’re saying or doing. They’ll be more likely to help you feel that same feeling. For example, maybe in your opinion “soft” is a compliment, but your partner hears it as a criticism of their weight.

Not only can these racy narratives upgrade your sex life, but they can also strengthen your relationship. Dr. Jess O’Reilly, resident sexologist for Astroglide, adds that dirty talk is also a great way to build anticipation and cultivate consent—both before and during intimacy. For better or worse, women have had magazine upon magazine (and limitless porn videos) teach us how to sound sexy in bed, and boy oh boy do we understand the value of it.